Stranger Danger…….Who is the child molester?

It is very difficult to explain to children just who the child molester is, what he (or she) looks like, where he can be found, and why he would hurt them. Just as confusing is the term "stranger," since for many children everyone is a stranger outside of their families, relatives and friends.

What parents must do then is to impress upon their children that harmful situations can occur almost anywhere. Children must be aware of their surroundings and careful to approach uncommon situations with caution. They must also know what to do and where to go if they feel they are in danger. Running away, screaming, or going to a neighbor's house are all good tactics, and parents should indicate when these are most appropriate.

Parents know best their children's personalities and habits, and these should be considered whenever prevention of child molesting is discussed.

Take the time to discuss the prevention tips with your child. The prevention of child molesting must become the concern of everyone.

Be Committed Parents

The prevention of child molesting depends heavily upon a commitment by parents to discuss the problem with their children. Parents should strive for such a loving and trusting relationship that, no matter what happens, their children will not be afraid to confide in them.

Minimize Fear

Keeping in mind the need to minimize fear and distrust among our children.

Give Specific Instructions

Since both boys and girls may encounter molesters anywhere, at any time, specific instructions should replace vague warnings against strangers. Even small children should be informed clearly that NO ONE except a doctor or parent should touch their bodies with any intimacy.

Notify Police Immediately

If anything should happen, parents must have the wisdom and courage to call the police at once, in spite of embarrassment or fear of trouble.

Provide Your Child With Resources

Emergency Packet:
A list with workplace phone number, emergency phone numbers and relative's phone numbers
Money for taxi or pay phone
Check-In Person:
An adult who lives or works near the child's home should be available to check that the child arrived home safely and to help during an emergency.
Telephone list posted near a phone at home
List of house rules posted to remind child what is expected of them
First Aid Kit
Bad Weather Kit:
Flashlight, batteries, transistor radio, and activity books

For additional information or presentations to groups, contact the Pasco Sheriff's Office at (727) 847-5878 or Crime Prevention at (727) 834-3376. Missing and Exploited Children call 1-888-356-4774
To view registered sexual offenders living in Florida visit the following site on the web:

www.fdle.statefl.us