Stranger
Danger…….Who is the child molester?
It is very difficult to explain to children just who the child molester
is, what he (or she) looks like, where he can be found, and why he
would hurt them. Just as confusing is the term "stranger," since for
many children everyone is a stranger outside of their families,
relatives and friends.
What parents must do then is to impress upon their children that
harmful situations can occur almost anywhere. Children must be aware of
their surroundings and careful to approach uncommon situations with
caution. They must also know what to do and where to go if they feel
they are in danger. Running away, screaming, or going to a neighbor's
house are all good tactics, and parents should indicate when these are
most appropriate.
Parents know best their children's personalities and habits, and these
should be considered whenever prevention of child molesting is
discussed.
Take the time to discuss the prevention tips with your child. The
prevention of child molesting must become the concern of everyone.
Be Committed Parents
The prevention of child molesting depends heavily upon a commitment by
parents to discuss the problem with their children. Parents should
strive for such a loving and trusting relationship that, no matter what
happens, their children will not be afraid to confide in them.
Minimize Fear
Keeping in mind the need to minimize fear and distrust among our
children.
Give Specific Instructions
Since both boys and girls may encounter molesters anywhere, at any
time, specific instructions should replace vague warnings against
strangers. Even small children should be informed clearly that NO ONE
except a doctor or parent should touch their bodies with any intimacy.
Notify Police Immediately
If anything should happen, parents must have the wisdom and courage to
call the police at once, in spite of embarrassment or fear of trouble.
Provide Your Child With Resources
Emergency Packet: A list with workplace phone number, emergency phone numbers and
relative's phone numbers
Money for taxi or pay phone
Check-In Person: An adult who lives or works near the child's home should be available
to check that the child arrived home safely and to help during an
emergency.
Telephone list posted near a phone at home
List of house rules posted to remind child what is expected of them
First Aid Kit
Bad Weather Kit: Flashlight, batteries, transistor radio, and activity books
For additional information or presentations to groups, contact the
Pasco Sheriff's Office at (727) 847-5878 or Crime Prevention at (727)
834-3376. Missing and Exploited Children call 1-888-356-4774
To view registered sexual offenders living in Florida visit the
following site on the web:
www.fdle.statefl.us
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